Lets face it, we all have a core desire to have a joyful experience of
life.
The more connected you are with yourself, the lesser your chances of
holding onto any deluded desires ( joyful life as a JW). By "staying connected
with yourself", I mean have a deep sense of the NATURAL makeup of
your brain(including its core personality), rest in your being and thus allow
the intelligence of your life-stream to touch your mind. Most deluded desires
are created through a lack of understanding of one's own true nature and
by fueling a psychological craving over wisdom.